Get Your Ex Back – Avoid These 5 Things Like The Plague
If you’ve recently split and decided being single is not all it’s cracked up to be. You need to avoid any of these things if you desire to get your ex back. Most people fall into the trap of doing these no-no’s and ruin any chance they have.
1 – Spreading lies about your ex
You will ruin any chance you have of getting together again with this one. If they were spreading lies about you, how would you feel about that? I know I would be gutted. If my ex were telling lies about me then that would be the end of it, for good.
2 – Making them feel jealous
This tactic can work if you know what you are doing and when to use it. But it won’t work when you’ve just broke up and you are clearly in bits and they know you will try anything to get your ex back. This can go wrong in a big way. You try for jealousy and you get disgust and them deciding that it was a good decision to split.
3 – The stalker
Do we even need to discuss this one? But just in case we do. At best you are going to come across as needy and clingy, which isn’t going to help. At worst you can come across as dangerous and frightening, which could lead to the law being involved which will most definitely kill any chance you have.
4 – Revenge is sweet
Revenge may be sweet but if revenge is on your mind do you really want to get them back? You can’t love your ex as much as you think if you are planning some kind of revenge. If you love someone you won’t hurt them, period.
5 – Calling & texting constantly
Now even though this could fall into the stalker bracket it’s a different ball game altogether. Constantly pestering your ex with texts and calls could be deemed as a form of torture. This is not the look you are going for. What if they were to change their number instead of just ignoring you? If they do that there’s a good chance you lost them for good.
So, we now know a few things not to do if you want to get your ex back. Some things will increase the odds in your favour but they aren’t them, so avoid them.
If you want my advice, use the next few weeks to take some time out and get your emotions firmly in check If you are in control of your emotions you give yourself a greater chance to get your ex back.
When I split & wanted to get my wife back I turned to a step by step system that was so easy to follow a child could have done it.
Choose to get your ex back, don’t leave it to fate.
